One thing that I have never truly been able to understand is how people can go from relationship to relationship, back-to-back. Do they take any time at all to recover or grieve? What is the tie frame taken to process what went wrong and how things can be changed going into the next one? Also, what about the amount of time you spent devoted to learning and being with another person? I'm not saying your relationship should drain you. On the contrary, the best relationships gives you time and space away from your partner while still thriving! Which is why if your relationship comes to an end, you are still standing strong on both feet with your self still in tact. So, the whole jumping from relationship to relationship never made sense because you aren't giving yourself time to discover who you are alone. Also, you're depriving yourself of having a Singleversary! No need to go into detail about what the word Singleversary means. You get it. So, despite our society's negative connotation with singledom (no matter what the articles say), throwing on your party hat and blasting that happily single playlist you've been steadily putting together is quite possibly the best thing you can experience! Now gather around while Health Like Me dives into the joys and necessity of celebrating your singleversary! Yay!
Celebrating your singleversary means self-reflection. Finding out who you are at different stages of your life is the ultimate goal!
How to Properly Celebrate itStarting a new book, taking an ACV bath, picking up a new hobby, working out, traveling alone.... the list could go on and on! Embracing being single is a right of passage that needs to be a right of passage we all need to make time for, no matter what our sex is! You might find a hidden talent or revisit something you may have forgotten you once loved. And those are spectacular finds indeed!
Don't limit yourself whilst celebrating. Do it all! You will be so surprised at what you discover within yourself and you will be so much more open and adamant to maintaining your autonomy once you find yourself in a mature relationship.
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